Toddler Terrible 2's and 3's
Give the terrible 2's and 3's toddlers a chance
Life with toddlers is full of love, laughter and wonderful times, but it can also have more difficult moments such as the toddler tantrums in the supermarket, these toddler tantrums are part of what we refer to as the terrible 2's and 3's. If you can try to understand what makes your toddler tick - wanting to be independent and grown up one minute, but your baby the next - you're more likely to get the most out of this phase in your child's life. And understand why your toddler is going through the terrible 2's and 3's. Toddler tantrums are generally brought about as your toddler is incapable of expressing itself.
Keeping a positive attitude and concentrating on the fun side of your toddler's life throughout the terrible 2's and 3's can lift your spirits, even when you're feeling down, due to too many toddler tantrums. Make an effort to join in them in play and find time to laugh together. Enjoy activities with them whenever possible - at the playground, in your garden or just at home in front of the TV. Remember distraction can reduce the amount of toddler tantrums throughout the terrible 2's and 3's.
These toddler years are over all too quickly.Vow to enjoy your toddler (with or without the toddler tantrums) - these years are over all too quickly and many parents feel real regret when school days begin...yes even those that have suffered with the toddler tantrums and terrible 2's and 3's!
Happy times with your toddlerTo help you get through the more difficult terrible 2's and 3's times, and to put things in perspective, think about all the wonderful aspects of toddlerdom. You could even write a list to refer to when toddler tantrums and tears get you down.
You might include some of the following:
- Toddlers think parents are the greatest people in the world - as far as they're concerned, you're the centre of the universe. Make the most of this - it might not last for ever.
- Most toddlers cry a lot less than when they were babies.
- You should be getting a better night's rest as sleep patterns are established - although some sleep problems can persist during this time.
- You may have more time for yourself than you had when they were a baby.
- With your toddler around, you have an endless supply of cuddles and affection...these always help against toddler tantrums!!
- Their zest and enthusiasm for new discoveries can be infectious. Watch them play with a puzzle and enjoy their delight as they manages to make a piece fit.
- Their perseverance, trying things over and over again, and their sheer determination to master new skills can be thrilling.
- Your toddler's love of silliness and laughter often allows you to be a child again.
- Their funny little sayings and expressions can be an endless source of delight.
